Judgments and Meanings Mastery

The Judgement and Meanings Mastery Exercises are designed to bring you to A FUNDAMENTALLY NEUTRAL CONDITION regarding any judgement you have made of any person, any group, any subject or any thing. This returns you to a FULL CONSCIOUS POWER OF CHOICE over the judgement you have made. At this point you can accurately determine if the judgement serves you and retain it, or cease to create it, as YOU choose.

All judgements, be they negative or positive, produce a particular effect or result. Negative judgements separate one out from people, groups, subjects and abilities. Positive judgements increase one's degree of affinity or liking and connect one to the people, groups, subjects and abilities being positively judged.

What one can accomplish exploring the subject of judgments appears to be unlimited. The more we research, the more we are amazed at how much we can accomplish when we are willing to embrace the subject and discipline our application of the exercise.

This issue is designed to introduce the first basic exercise on the subject. The exercise can be done alone but it appears to have better results when done with a person who is willing to listen without judgement and who has the ability to simply ask a question, get an answer to the question they asked and acknowledge the answer.

 

Step 1
- Review the Basic Principles

Even if you have done so a number of times, I suggest that each time you do the exercise you go over the basic principles. The basics are as follows:

 

  1. All Situations Are Fundamentally Neutral.
  2. No Situation Has Built-in Meaning.
  3. We Add The Meaning To Any Situation --
    Negative Meaning, Negative Result Instantly;
    Positive Meaning, Positive Result Instantly. *
  4. Negative Judgement Tends to Seperate One Out From the Person, Group, Subject or Thing That Is Being Judged.
  5. Positive Judgement Tends to Connect One To the Thing That Is Being Judged.
  6. A Negative Judgement Is an Idea or Attitude That Lowers One's Affinity, Caring and Love for the Person, Group, Thing or Subject Being Judged.
  7. A Positive Judgement Is an Idea or Attitude That Increases One's Affinity, Caring and Love for the Person, Group, Thing or Subject Being Judged. **
You now have the choice to add negative or positive meaning to the situation. You can decide that nothing goes right for you any more, that the world is against you and life is getting unbearable. Instantly, you will feel bad to one degree or another.

Or you can chose to add, invent or imagine positive meaning. This is a great omen, it means great wealth and joy are about to materialize in your life. Instantly, you will feel great.

The least that happens when you add positive meaning is a good feeling. The most that can happen has yet to be discovered.

The MEANINGS PROGRAM invites people to discover the meanings they have assigned in life so that they can then create and assign the meanings that give them more of the life they want.

 

Step 2
- Clarify Your Objective

The prime objective in this exercise is:

 

To come to a conscious recognition of yourself as the creator of a specific negative judgment and to cease to create or continue the judgement as you choose.

The idea is that you examine the judgement to see if it serves you or not. You check to see if it is contributing to the life you wish to have. If it does, then you of course continue to create it. If it does not, then you get rid of it.

Each of you should be able to relate this objective to each other without alterations, omissions or additives.

 

Step 3
- The Exercise Steps

NOTE: It is BEST if you study these steps until you have them down pat and can do them without having to refer to this paper. Once you really know what you are working to do, you should be able to just do it. Until then, use the paper.

 

  1. Select a person or subject.
    Ask your partner:
    "Is there a person or subject that you feel you are or might be judging?"
    (Example: Your wife, husband, one of the children, a friend, an associate, a person at work, the president of the United States, your government, the IRS, Russia, the government of another country, or yourself. (Note: Yourself is not recommend as the first item. Do a number of others first.)
  2. Say to your partner:
    Get as clear a vision and feeling of that person (or item) as you can.
  3. Now spot ONE SPECIFIC negative judgement that you have regarding that person or item, and tell it to me.
  4. Now ask
    A) Is this judgement a creation of yours? (Get an answer and acknowledge your partner)
    B) Are you doing a great job of creating this judgement? (Answer, acknowledgment)
    C) Does this judgement serve you in any way? (And/or Is it of value?)
    If yes, How does it serve you? How is it of value?
    If no, simply acknowledge and go onto the next step.
    D) Do you wish to continue the creation of this judgement?
    If no, you have the person cease to create it anyway they can.
    You can have a big river of WonderFul energy wash through the body and carry the judgement off into never-never land.
    You can simply cease to create it. (i.e. You are no longer creating it to (be part of who you choose to be.)
    You can create a positive judgement to take it's place.
    The IDEA is you get rid of it in any way you can.
    If your partner is having trouble, check if it has any other value, or check to see if he or she has judgments that say, "It's not easy to get rid of judgements?" "You can't just let them go?" etc.
    In my research on this subject I found that when someone SEEMS unable to do something, they are judging that they are unable to do it.
    E) Now repeat steps A to D until there are no more judgements to be found.
    Sometimes they will come up is streams and flow off. Just be sure you have them all on the person or subject you are working on.
This pretty much covers the exercise. It is of course true tat the more you understand the subject and anatomy involved, and the more you practice, the better you will become.

When you have fully handled your judgements, and you have come to a fundamentally neutrality with regard to the person or subject in question, you should be able to see that person as, "One of the ways one could be", or "One of the ways things could be".

You may or may not PREFER to be that way yourself, but you can see it as A WAY one could be if one choose.

PREFERENCE is a gentle concept. JUDGEMENT is a vector, an arrow, a shot, something that has magnitude and direction.

The basic idea of fundamental neutrality is:

  • Whatever anyone can be someone someone somewhere will always be.
  • Whatever can be done someone somewhere will do?
  • That is one of the things one could so.
  • That is one of the things one could be.
It may not be what you PREFER or CHOOSE, but you can see it as a choice someone can make.

I sincerely hope you find this of value. I continue to do so and am amazed about how much there is to learn about this simple subject.

 
John Michael Rafanello
WonderTech's Chief Visioneer

 
* = Example: You are going to catch a train. You arrive at the station and discover that you have missed the train. The situation is fundamentally neutral. The fact of the matter is that the train is over there and you are not on it.

** = NOTE: There is of course the idea of judging a situation to determine what would be the best course of action to take. The idea is that one wishes to accomplish some objective. If the objective is well defined, it is then possible to judge a course of action that might work to accomplish the defined objective. In this exercise, we are, in the main. referring to judgements as defined above rather than this process of determining the best course of action.

 
 
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